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Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

Lori Gottlieb

Lori Gottlieb

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

November 2025 432 pages

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

Lori Gottlieb

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"Maybe You Should Talk to Someone" by Lori Gottlieb is an extraordinary read that takes us behind the closed door of a psychologist's office. Gottlieb, an experienced psychologist, tells the stories of four of her clients while she herself goes through a personal crisis and decides to see a psychologist. This dual perspective, as both psychologist and someone seeking help, makes the book exceptionally powerful.

Through the stories of her clients (a narcissistic Hollywood producer, a young woman with a terminal illness, an elderly woman experiencing deep loneliness, and a young man who can't build relationships), Gottlieb shows us that everyone, regardless of age, status, or success, needs help. She writes with humor, sensitivity, and incredible honesty.

In cultures where seeing a psychologist is still considered taboo by many, this book is particularly valuable. Gottlieb demonstrates that seeking professional help isn't a sign of weakness: on the contrary, it's an act of courage and self-awareness. She demystifies talking to a psychologist, showing what actually happens in a session and how psychologist and client work together. At 432 pages, the book reads like a novel: engaging, moving, and sometimes hilarious. It is recommended for anyone curious about what happens in a session, for those who hesitate to seek help, and for anyone who simply wants to understand human nature more deeply. It's the kind of book that might just change your mind about what it means to ask for help.

Key insight: Even psychologists need help: seeking help isn't weakness, it's an act of courage and self-awareness.

How this book relates to working on yourself

Reading a book like this helps you understand yourself better, and it can be even more useful when you talk these ideas through with a licensed psychologist. In a session you can relate the book's lessons to your own situation and find practical steps toward wellbeing.

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